Guy on Hinge used AI… and Chat GPT Gaslit me

Guy on Hinge used AI… and Chat GPT Gaslit me

I read an article about six months ago when I was still with my ex about how people (mainly men) are using Chat to message people on dating apps. Thank goodness I won’t have to deal with that, I thought. Fast forward, I started chatting to a guy… there was one small red flag in a message (“thats a great question, it’s really important to be honest here”) but his other messages seemed normal and he was an organic vegetable grower and I thought “this hippy man is SURELY not doing this.”

A few messages later he had told me he’d learned a lot from his last relationship and I asked what he’d learned: he sent me the messages above (I haven’t even included all of it because it’s soooooo long), like the most clearly AI thing you’ve ever seen.

I immediately unmatched but also pasted it into Chat saying “was this written by AI?”. It denied it, saying it was very unlikely. It gave a 60- 75% chance it was written solely by a human, a 20-30% chance it was ”polished” with AI and only like a 5-10% chance it was written by AI GUYS LOOK AT THESE MESSAGES.

Why is Chat GPT defending this man and gaslighting me? Is there something in its programming about hiding AI when other people use it? Is the dating pool poisoned and I need to just give up forever?

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